Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Life :D

Wow! My life is changing so quickly! I can't believe that everything is already here! I graduated on May 5th with a B.A. in English and cum laude honors. I have to say I feel extremely good to be done! My college career was quite the roller coaster! Shortly after graduating (the same weekend!!) I moved to Northglenn with my fiancee and his family. I loved living in Denver during my freshman year of college so I was super excited to be back. The hardest part has been being away from my mom. For years she has been my pillar of strength and my best friend and being away from her for an extended period of time has truly helped me to appreciate her even more. Over the last few days I have gotten to spend some time in Pueblo with her while her boyfriend Nick went to Sturgis. I have loved this time with my mom and visits remind me of just how important our time together is to me.

On June 2nd I got married to the love of my life and became Mrs. Aric Jones. The morning of the wedding was one of the biggest health challenges that I have faced in my life. I had spent a few days prior to the wedding unable to eat and unable to keep down anything that I tried to eat. Unfortunately this meant that I could barely stand without help. I am so fortunate to have medical specialists in the family. My brother was able to get an IV kit and my dad started two bags of fluid (one with glucose). After the IV, I started to feel better. It was still difficult but the more things came together, the less my mind was on the difficulties and exhaustion that my body was feeling. Once I had my dress on, my hair and make-up done, and arrived at the church, I could feel the illness losing its battle. The moment I saw my husband to be at the end of the aisle, all of my worries faded and I knew that the struggle to get there was worth it. After that, everything was perfect. The ceremony was beautiful and the reception was a blast!


On July 21st, my brother and his wife had a beautiful baby girl and I became an auntie (for the first time by blood). Molly Elizabeth Mendoza is absolutely perfect. She has captured my heart and I spend as much time with her as possible. It is amazing watching her grow and develop. I am so fortunate to have her as my niece. My husband and I have decided that we have the four most amazing and adorable nieces in existence. I love all four of them to pieces! I love that each of them is in a different stage of life and the opportunity to experience the growing process with them has helped me to appreciate life even more!
I cannot wait to be a mother myself. (Don't worry mom, not just yet). Being a part of my nieces lives has made that desire even stronger. I cannot wait to have a baby of my own and pray that one day it will happen. To know that this small child is a part of me and my husband and that we can influence his or her life excites me. One day I hope I will make a wonderful mommy.

As for the future? I plan on working in retail for the next year. I take my LSAT in October and depending on how well I score, will determine if I can get in to law school. I am very nervous but I am hoping that I will be prepared and will perform well. I have been thinking a lot about other things that I would enjoy just in case, not because I don't think I won't make it or don't have confidence, but because I don't want to be without a back up plan. One option is to return to school for a while and get my elementary education license. I originally wanted to teach middle school and while I loved watching middle school students learn new things, I lost the passion for it. I love small children so much that I don't think I could ever get tired of working with them. I am excited to see where the future takes me!
"To my niece(s), 
You are a joy to my heart and a delight to my eyes.
You are a precious gift to our family and a wonderful addition to our lives."
-Janie Anthony

Wednesday, June 13, 2012

A very brief update from a Mrs. Jones

My wedding was one of the best days of my life! ... once it got started. Saturday morning was one of the worst mornings of my life. I had spent the entire night vomiting and hadn't eaten in four days (besides a sandwhich on Thursday thanks to Drew!) Between the two, I was weak and miserable. Luckily my brother was able to get me IV fluids and my nurse dad was able to get it started. Once I had some fluids, I started to feel better. I was able to hold my head up and walk on my own (which I hadn't done since waking up ... or rather getting up since I never really fell asleep).

After a bit, with the help of fluids, my amazing hair and make up guy Rafael, and the love and support of my family, I was able to get going. On the car ride over, my sister-in-law Jordan played a few songs to pump me up and my brother kept me breathing (mostly to help the bouts of nausea pass) and by some miracle we made it to the church. (I am using a lot of parantheses in this blog). After that the rest of the day is quite a blur, I only remember bits and pieces (lots of hugs and smiles and well wishes). I want to thank everyone for coming! And apologize for being two hours late. I really do plan on writing a much longer update with many more pictures and details soon but this will have to do for tonight because I need to get some sleep :) Love yall!


“So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook


Monday, December 5, 2011

6 months to go?!

Hello everyone!! I know its been quite some time since I last blogged but life has been super busy. As many of you know Aric proposed to me on October 7th! And of course I said yes! Since then my life has been a flurry of wedding questions! (in no particular order) What kind of flowers? How many? Is this the dress? What about brides maid dresses? Where are we going to have the ceremony? How are we doing food? Who's going to be in the wedding party? Who's going to do the pictures? And DJ? What about the groom and his groomsmen? What are they wearing? Are we keeping the wedding small? Etc etc!! Luckily more of these questions are being answered every day! It's definitely an exciting time but with my finals going on right now too I have had little time to really sit and plan. My last tests are Friday and as I have told my maid of honor that's when the real fun begins! If anyone is curious about wedding planning or about our story (how we met, who we are etc.) click here for our wedding website. It's kind of crazy that we have gone through two months already and only have six to go. The kind of crazy thing about our wedding date, June 2nd, is that we will share the anniversary with my grandparents on my dad's side and my professor Dr. Eskew. It is a wonderful day for a wedding!
We got to spend Thanksgiving with both sets of family this year. We had dinner with Benny's in-laws on Thursday and Aric's family Friday. It was great getting to spend time with everyone! I love that we have such great families!
We have more exciting things coming up in our lives too! My dad is moving back to Colorado, since he graduated medical school (nursing school, my bad lol its finals week leave me alone haha thanks for pointing it out ma!)! Hopefully that will be happening sooner rather than later. He says he wants to move to Denver which I think will be great for him! Also I graduate May 5th which unfortunately is William and Lindsay's wedding date. My hope is to graduate early in the morning, take a few quick pictures, and then leave to Denver to catch at least the reception.
Sorry this is a short update filled with a bunch of updates and not much else but with it being finals I'm sure you understand! Another update with pictures (proposal, engagement, holiday etc.) and detail is soon to come! Love you all!

Soulmates...two halves of the
same soul joining together in life's journey
~ Author Unknown ~

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

An Update!

Wow!! Its been a while since I blogged last and a lot of exciting things have happened, I don't even know where to start! I guess with my best news...
As many of you know, my mom started to
get sick about a year ago and took a major turn for the worst around November.I know, you're probably thinking "Thats good news?" Well no, its not. What is good news though is that she went to California in February/March and started to see an acupuncture doctor as a last hope. The doctor was really optimistic and she told mom that she would get better. Luckily she was right! Granted she isn't able to return to work just yet but from near wheel chair to just using a cane and not even that all of the time, its a miracle! I hope she continues on this path and is able to return to work and become independent again. Not that I mind helping her out, but just to see my mom glow again! She gets better every day! She started warm pool physical therapy last week and each time she goes she gets a little bit stronger! I am so proud of her for not losing hope even though I know there were many times that she wanted to. Keep your head up momma! And please everyone keep your thoughts and prayers coming! We sure do appreciate them!
The second exciting thing in my life now is my relationship. Thanks to my good friend William, I met an amazing guy named Aric. He has been a light in my life and I am so grateful for him. He has brought me so much joy and confidence in my life and I couldn't ask for anything more. We have a ton in common and can spend hours not doing much of anything but just enjoying our time together. The difficult part is that we live two hours apart from each other but we have been lucky enough to see each other every weekend. Generally we switch off weekends, I'll go up one weekend and he will come down the next, but occasionally something causes us to go off schedule lol. One of the best parts is, I absolutely adore his family. His mom (Cathy) is terrific, his sister (Cortney) is so great, his brother-in-law (Dean) is fun to talk to, his dad (Stan) is great and his nieces (Riley, Alexandra, and Scarlett) are absolutely precious! All three of them have melted my heart and I love spending time with them. Unfortunately I only have blurry pictures with the two oldest, Riley who is 10 and Alexandra who is 7. The littlest one is Scarlett and she will be 2 in June but when we took pictures we were in the van on the way to the mall and I sat in the back with Riley and Alexandra and Scarlett was in her car seat in the seat in front of us so I didn't get a picture but I will do that soon! Sorry they are blurry and don't get all three of us in one frame, van rides don't make for good pictures! After this we had fun sending Aric twenty or so texts! The girls just love their Uncle Aric and picking on him is fun too :D. His family is wonderful, I couldn't imagine better! They have made me feel welcome and loved! I can't wait to spend more time with them!

Alexandra and I (and Riley's eye :))

Riley and I
I do have a video of Scarlett playing with my phone so I think I will upload that too because its just too darn cute not to and this way Cortney can see it. I know its 6 minutes long but trust me its worth watching... there are parts I could edit out but for some reason movie maker and my videos from my camera don't play nicely! (In the background you can hear Cort and Cathy talking about a book that they got Dean for his birthday lol) The way that she interacts with the camera is soo cute! It's like she is trying to look through it backwards to figure out what it is :) after this video she noticed that she could see the pictures on the other side so she had fun looking at the screen and pressing the record button over and over so I got a few 2 second videos of the couch, her foot, anything interesting (which you will get a glimpse of at the end of the video lol) also in the video you will see her game of making her limbs disappear and asking where they went, she also points out that my phone is to say hello. Lol she is so smart and so cute I absolutely adore all of his nieces!

On a final note, I had another strong semester! I was hoping for a 4.0 but it was a really tough semester and I ended up with 2 A's, 1 A-, and 3 B's. I guess I should be stoked but I am merely content. Hopefully next semester I will get my 4.0! I also got inducted into Sigma Tau Delta (STD for short .. terrible I know lol) the English Honor Society at CSU-P! I am so happy and proud that I finally made it. I just had to find my passion :P!
Anyway, I will definitely be blogging more this summer now that I am out of school and have a little more time! Probably a lot more about the girls and Aric and of course updates on mom! I wanted everyone to know that I am happy, healthy and loving life! I definitely have lots to be thankful for and am very blessed. Until next time I love you all! And don't worry, I didn't forget the quote:
When you look at your life, the greatest happinesses are family happinesses. ~Joyce Brothers

Friday, October 15, 2010

One HUGE update!

Wow SOOOO... yeah, I know... I didn't blog about GA. I just realized that today. I haven't done my teaching blog yet either... Well guess what! Its time for a super long probably long winded blog!!! I guess I will go back and start with GA since that was the first one I should have written :)

General Assembly... what is there to really say about being a YAAD at the 2010 219th General Assembly? Only one word comes to mind... YAADtastic!!!!! General Assembly has to be one of the best experiences of my life. It was absolutely insane, and absolutely hectic, and absolutely busy, and absolutely stressful, but most of all absolutely worth it. All of the days ran together when I was there, so there is no way I could do a day by day thing but I will try my best to categorize the events somehow... The first few days were great, I was extremely nervous going out there because I didn't know anyone (besides my pastor who didn't fly in until the next day) and had never been to the city before. Let me tell you one thing, God's children are amazing. Once in Minnesota, my fears quickly disappeared. I met my roommate Hannah almost immediately and we got along beautifully. She and I went downstairs to register and ran into an old friend of hers named Caroline (who by the way later became one of our co-moderators). And we agreed to all go to dinner together. Later that evening we met up with a large group of people (correct me if I am wrong YAADS, but there were 7 of us that first night right?) and went to chipotle for dinner. We then went to Target (Which by the way was HUGE) and laughed and had a ball (hahaha no pun intended YAADs). We all clicked really well together and the majority of the 7 of us spent a great deal of time together for the next ten days. YAAD orientation was long, informative, but long. We learned tons of new information about Robert's rules of order and how our meetings were going to be run and we worshiped and just got things done. Worship with the YAADs was something that I enjoyed. I loved looking around the room and seeing so many people my age just as in to God as I am. I haven't been able to see that in my home church so GA was a breath of fresh air for me. By Sunday, we were all oriented and ready to go, GA had begun. Sunday morning worship was ... well WOW! 10,000 presbyterians, god loving, children of our lord, came together to do one thing, Worship our lord and savior. The opening processional was a beautiful display of colors, animals, dancers, and all of god's creations coming from everywhere to join in that purpose. The four dancers represented the four winds (from the four edges of the world) and at the very end, each of them poured a pitcher of water into one single baptismal font. There was a call to worship, there were songs, Bruce Reyes Chow (former moderator) gave an extremely powerful service, there was more singing and more worshiping and then the service ended with all of us who had never witnessed a GA worship in awe. Business started either Monday or Tuesday I think it was monday... and we broke off into 19 committees. 1. Business referrals, 2. Bills and overtures, 3. General Assembly procedures, 4. Middle governing body issues, 5. Church Polity, 6. Church orders and ministry, 7. Form of government, 8. Ecumenical and interfaith relations, 9. Mission coordination, 10. Social Justice issues A: the promotion of social righteousness, 11. Social Justice issues B: the exhibition of the kingdom of heaven to the world, 12. Civil Union and marriage issues, 13. Peacemaking and International issues, 14. Middle East peace making issues, 15. Church Growth, Christian education and PILP, 16. Theological issues and institutions, 17. Review of GA permanent committees, 18. Board of Pensions, Foundation and Presbyterian Publishing, and 19. Health Issues (my committee also the picture below which is almost all the YAADs from committee 19 I don't know where the rest of yall went!). Each committee was given overtures to read over, amend, and vote on whether to send it to plenary. These lasted until Wednesday and were pretty stressful. YAADS were allowed to discuss, and vote. Our input was welcome in committee and encouraged. After hours of discussing, debating, disagreeing and finally voting, we were all exhausted. Our committee was having issues sweating the small stuff (And trust me I mean the small stuff like using the word females instead of women in an overture) and it seemed like we were going to be stuck there until late on Wednesday. Tuesday night however we were all bit in the but by the same bug and just got everything done! We finished first on Wednesday afternoon in time to get lunch! It was great! All of the YAADs on my committee went out to eat at this place (a sports bar and I totally forgot what the name of it is!) where we watched the tail end of a soccer game and laughed and truly enjoyed ourselves. Later that day, the YAADs all got to go to the Mall of America. When they say the mall is big, they mean the mall is gigantic. You can't walk the whole thing in a day, heck they said if you spend ten minutes in each store it would take you three days. There is an amusement park IN the mall! There is even a little lego land too its great! We had a ton of fun and I really got to bond with one of my favorite people in the whole world on the roller coasters, you know who you are. The rest of the week was business. Plenary to be precise. Boy oh boy did that get stressful some times. For the most part though it wasn't terrible. The YAADs figured out a way to chat through PCbiz so at least we could hear each others' reasoning for voting the way we did. Granted we weren't allowed a real vote in plenary, just an advisory one, it was still nice to vote for good reason since some people really did take into account our votes. By July 10th, the final day of GA, I was exhausted. I flew home and could barely function. Sleep was not something that YAADs know how to do very well. All in all the experience was one I won't soon forget and I truly miss my fellow YAADs. Hopefully that day wasn't goodbye and in fact see you soon.

Ok, now teaching. The whole teaching experience was great. I loved being there to answer questions. I loved watching their faces light up when they knew an answer. I just loved the very act of teaching itself! I think I did a great job for it being my first time teaching. It wasn't perfect but it was my first time so I am ok with it. The students were engaged the entire time and overall it was fun. I know its not a very lengthy write up, but there isn't much to say other then I now know that I am doing the right thing with my life and let me just say, it is a wonderful feeling.

I wanted to share the freakiest story with you. I hate bees. I am absolutely am terrified of them and wasps. Well, I was sitting in my car in the parking lot of CSU, reading for class and enjoying the fall weather with my windows down. Next thing I know, there is a bee in my car. I sit absolutely still and wait for it to fly out. It flies into my cheek a few times and I shut my eyes hard. Then it flies into my hair! But still, I sat as still as I could just waiting for it to leave. After a minute or two I figure it probably flew out and I just didn't notice so I gently run my hand across the back of my head where it had landed and feel nothing. So I relax and go back to my reading. The next thing I know, I feel something crawling on the side of my head! It was the stupid bee! So I literally sit perfectly still and try to coax the bee out by moving strands of hair that were blocking it from flying off my head. I don't hear any buzzing and can't tell if it flew away but i don't feel it any more. So I get out of my car and gently shake my head and turn my hair upside down to make sure it isn't there anymore. To this day I don't know if it stayed in my car or what but for the rest of the day any tickle I felt I freaked out. Luckily there is no bee in my hair any more but it was the scariest thing ever!


School is going well, I am starting to learn to love Shakespeare and am definitely loving being an English teacher. Hope you all are well!

We cannot hold a torch to light another's path without brightening our own.
-
Ben Sweetland


(oh by the way I think I will finally get around to uploading the rest of my GA pictures onto facebook so take a look HERE)

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Nerves!! I hate them...

Tomorrow is the big day... my first time teaching a full class. I have never been so nervous for anything in my life. I feel like this is a huge pivotal point in my life and if I mess it up, it will hurt my future. I love middle school students, I love English, and I love watching students learn... so this should be a piece of cake for me right? I mean, if you love something, it should come naturally... but I am so scared... My stomach is churning, I feel like I could throw up at any second, and I really feel like crying. I wish there were some way to shut off my ability to get nervous. It is my absolute least favorite feeling in the world! I hate feeling nauseous and unfortunately, I am a worrier. When I worry, my stomach immediately turns into nervous stomach. I really just hope I don't mess up. I know this blog is kind of all over the place but I had to do something to calm myself down and I suppose the one way I know best is to write. Though at this point I am so nervous I don't think anything could calm me down... my mom and my brother are the closest to being successful in calming me down, they both successfully did for a little while. My mom just told me all the things I was telling her when I was helping her to concur her fear of interviews, things like its just an irrational fear, the spirit is within me, just remember to breathe, something about the spirit of the fruit being self something I dont remember exactly but her good friend told her that and it seemed to help. I took some deep breaths and repeated all of that and it did help for a while. Then my brother gave me a list of five reasons why I shouldn't be nervous... he said dont be nerviousa sister, heres a top 5 list why:
5. Because you are Vaes and that automatically makes you cool
4. They are middle schoolers, if you say something silly, they wil laugh but they arent smart enough yet to realize you didn't do it on purpose
3. You are the sister of Bens and that automatically makes you cool
2. you have honestly found your calling and I can just tell you are really good at this. It's the first of something you will do the rest of your life and that is super exciting
and the number one reason why you shouldn't be nervous:
1. Because no one picks on a short teacher :P
I love that he made me smile and even attempt a small laugh, and that worked for as long as mom's advice... But now I am nervous again. I feel silly, but I can't calm myself down. I even took a hot bath! That helped too, but only briefly. I hope this feeling doesn't last. Sigh, wish me luck, I will post again with how it went. I would love as many thoughts and prayers as I can get. I love my family and friends. I am going to try and calm down some and get some sleep... wish me luck.

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

Neat Second Chance Story

Minnesota, how I love you! General Assembly, how I love you! New friends, how I love you! But most of all GOD!!! I LOVE YOU! I just wanted to take the time today to do one of my favorite things... write, and I figured that I could kill two birds with one stone and update my loving friends and family and blog. I had a bit of a break today (unfortunately I really need sleep) and figured, why not? General Assembly has been an absolutely amazing experience, mind you, stressful, but amazing!!! My brain is fried, my body is tired, my spirit is stretched to limits I didn't know it could begin to reach, but I feel amazing! I will update much more about my experiences here later but today I really just want to write about one thing. That one thing is a story, so here it goes...
In the late 1800's and early 1900's Northeastern Minnesota's main industry was lumber. Many of the local lakes were used as a way to transport logs to the mills. Some of the logs became water logged and sunk to the bottom of the lake. After 100 years or more of sitting on the bottom of the lake, some of the logs floated back to the surface. These logs are known as "Deadheads" because only one end of the log is visible and they are a great hazard to water craft. A few of those logs have now been harvested by a wonderful pastor named Bill and his wife Sherry. They named them Second chance logs. Just as jesus died on the cross and gave us a chance, these logs are representative of that love. The wood is otherwise useless. Bill sends them to another man who makes them into beautiful crosses. I wear one on a leather lanyard around my neck and will probably wear it forever. If anyone is interested in one of his crosses, he gives them away for free in any number. He doesn't want money, he just wants the crosses to be distributed to the world so that more people are hearing the word. Let me know if you are interested and I will give you his email to get into contact with him or you can let me know what you want and I will email him for you.
I will update everyone on how the trip is going in another post sometime this week or when I get back. I love you all! Fireworks were great! Mall of America was great! But I promise more updates will be coming.

You cannot go outside of A and Z in the realm of literature; likewise Christ Jesus is First and Last of God's new creation, and all that is in between; you cannot get outside of that.

-T. Austin Sparks